"MY DEPENDENCY ON MY PARTNER MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE"

I have been with my partner for one year now. We both live in France. One month ago I discovered that I'm pregnant. He has been great about it, very supportive. My problem is, and was even before the pregnancy, that I'm totally insecure. Only in the very beginning of the relationship I felt relaxed and happy, because at that stage I was not in love with him and I was not as attached to him as I am now.

This dependency makes me really scared - I doubt him, even if I know that there is not reason for that, I accuse him about his past and keep thinking about his past relationships. It seems to me as if I do now want to let myself be happy. I am always afraid that something bad will happen and have difficulty accepting that someone loves me and will not hurt me. I do not have any bad experience from the past in this sense. I just do not love and respect myself enough to believe that others can love me. I do not know how to change this.

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